Thanksgiving Weekend

This holiday weekend has been one of highs and lows for me. It started out pretty well when I had Thanksgiving at my Aunt Madge’s house with my cousins Mike and Renee. Renee’s kids were there as well as Aubrey, her granddaughter. I had a great time talking with all of them and eating the food. We had turkey, stuffing, green bean casserole, and several other delicious dishes. After that, I went over to my Dad’s and talked to with him and Darlene. I then went to John and Marianne’s house. Jason and DeAnne had arrived from Biloxi, so I got to hang out a little with everyone at John’s. It was a good day although I did get a little irritated. My only brother that I didn’t get to talk to was Doug, who was coming back home from his trip to Gatlinburg. I will see him and everyone else on Dec. 10th though.

Friday was the real high, however, in that I was able to see Arkansas get the stuffing beat out of them by an indomitable LSU team. On to the SEC championship against Georgia and hopefully the NCAA Championship in New Orleans. Arkansas was able to put up 14 points against us initially, which is the biggest deficient we had the entire year. Actually, coming from behind was quite novel as it has been really rare this year. Mathieu and the defense played like professionals. The offense was great as well, especially our depth in running-backs. By the end of the game, dive plays were slicing them like soft cheese. Jefferson played almost the entire game with Lee getting in only a few snaps. I feel quite miffed about this as we are definitely not running a 2 quarterback system. I think it is a slap in the face to Lee, who has proved his ability and loyalty. This was the only stain on an otherwise awesome game. To be honest, it made me wish for some nice pork rather than turkey for dinner. Besides this, I have a message to the rest of the football nation – be afraid, very afraid. Almost every starter on our team is either a Freshman, Sophomore, or Junior. Only a few Seniors and they have great backups behind them. It is downright scary how good LSU is with such a young team.

After that, it seemed to go a little bit downhill. I did not get much sleep as I stayed up to read a book. I was really tired for work Saturday. I know, I know. I accept full responsibility for my actions. I think I got sick from doing this as I slept from 7:00 p.m. Saturday to 9:30 on Sunday. I was feeling too blah for church. The only good thing that came from Sunday was seeing one of the most spectacular episodes of The Walking Dead. This show was getting a little too weak sauce for me and then bam!, it went to another level. Good writing. Yesterday, was a little more of the same. Two nice things happened despite my funky mood – my friends Nathan and Jill had a little girl, Presley Britt, and New Orleans rubbed the Giants’ face in their own mediocrity. If you don’t know it, I will tell you – I despise Eli Manning. It goes back to the 2004 Draft when he refused to play for the San Diego Chargers. I like Peyton, but cheer like crazy when Eli loses. Speaking of the NFL, what is up with Tim Tebow? I am not a fan, but you have to laugh at the fools who said he would not amount to much. I admit to a little bad prognosticating and being a fool, but damn he is winning. It is not pretty, but he is winning.

Perhaps the true low point is that I have decided to sell one of my babies, my SKS. It has brought me great joy in the past but now sits in my closet not doing much. I need the green, so it goes. When my cash flow increases, I may get another or even something else. So, good bye Yugoslavian Type M59/66 SKS. I have only the pictures to remind me of you.

Hi-Ho BBQ – Denham Springs, LA

It represents the memory of my youth. Sliced pork loaded with sauce on a toasted bun accompanied by a side of chips and root beer in the bottle. Anytime my family got anywhere near to Hammond, Louisiana, we had to stop in for a Hi-Ho BBQ sandwich. My mother ate there during her time at Southeastern Louisiana University back in the 1960’s and I ate there as well during my stint at SLU.

I was quite excited when I heard that Hi-Ho was opening a location, its #4, in Denham Springs, the town closest to my hometown. I went there and was not too impressed. I went to Graduate School and China for a while and then accepted a job in Watson working for the parish library. Everyday, I drive by the Hi-Ho restaurant. I decided a week or so ago to give it another shot. I don’t know if it quite lives up to my nostalgia, but it was really tasty. The only two issues I had was that it had too much sauce and at $2.75 for a plain seemed a tad too overpriced. The first is easy to solve while the second complaint I can chalk up to memory and inflation.

As for the sandwich, it was really good and bore a great resemblance to what I remembered eating out in Hammond for so many years. Hi-Ho is not a traditional BBQ place in that it serves a great variety of meats. BBQ here means pork or beef on a bun. However, they have updated their menu with burgers, fries and some other selections. For me, however, the plain pork sandwich reigns supreme. No cheese or any other distractions – just pork, sauce and bun.

Andrew Smiley (1790-1874) and Elizabeth Bennett (1800-?)

(Me-M-M-M-M-M-Them)

Census

In 1820, Andrew Smiley is found in the Jefferson County, Mississippi census on page 59. He is listed with a wife, 3 male children 9 years and under as well as 2 white females 9 years and under. His first wife is unknown to me as is one of his female children. His other daughter is Lucinda Smiley, born around 1812, who married Zacharaih Zeigler. His sons were Samuel James Smiley, b. 1813, John Andrew Smiley, b. 23 September 1819. The third son is unknown. He did have a later son with this same wife, Benjamin Smiley, b. 1827.

In 1830, he is still listed in the Jefferson County, Mississippi census on page 28. He has 2 male children under 5, 1 under between 5 and 10, 1 under between 10 and 15, and 1 between 15 and 20. On the female side, he has living with him 1 female child under five years of age, 2 between 5 and 10, 1 between 10 and 15, and 2 between 15 and 20. I can only assume that it is wife listed between 20 and 30. This is his 2nd wife, Martha Foreman, whom he married on 16 August, 1828. They had one known child – Joseph Crunkleton Smiley, the Crunkleton name given for Andrew’s step-father. This makes sense as Andrew had five male children listed. I do not know who the 5 other female children are besides the already mentioned Lucinda.

In the 1840 census, Andrew Smiley is listed as living in Franklin County, Mississippi. Living with him now, he has 1 male child of five and under, 2 of 10 and under 15, 1 between 15 and 20. Andrew is now between 50 and 60. His wife is now between 30 and 40. She is his 3rd wife, Elizabeth Bennett, the widow of William G. Nix. Nix died in 1827 leaving her with several children. These were Samuel (Abt. 1824), Martha Ann (Abt. 1825), and Mary Catherine Nix (Abt. 1826). Elizabeth Bennett and Andrew Smiley married 20 May 1835. On female children, Andrew had living with him 2 children under 5 years of age, 1 between 10 and 15, and 2 between 15 and 20.

In 1850, Andrew is now living in Livingston Parish, LA. He (aged 60) and Elizabeth (50) are listed as the 329th household. Both of them are listed as illiterate. Andrew is listed as having a real estate value of $2710 and states that he was born in Mississippi. His wife lists her birthplace as Georgia. All of the children listed with him were born in Mississippi. These children were Sarah (14), Joseph (22), Elizabeth (12), and Oren (10). Oren is actually Ora and is my 3rd great-grandmother. Andrew is listed as a farmer and Joseph states that he is a laborer. Sarah, Elizabeth and Ora state that they attended school in the last year.

By 1860, Andrew is living with his son Andrew and wife, Catherine née Davidson. Andrew is listed as John and is now 71 years old. He is mistakenly listed as having been born in Louisiana. He does not have an occupation listed, no doubt due to advanced age. His son John has 3 children living with him – Andrew (5), George (4) and Sarah (2). He is listed as a farmer with a real estate value of $1000 and personal estate of $504.

In his last census, 1870, Andrew has moved to the home of his other son, Joseph. John lives very close, however, only several households down. He is now 80 years old and correctly stating that his birthplace as Mississippi. His son’s wife appears deceased and he has 3 daughters and 1 son living with him. Joseph’s daughters are Eliza (12), Catherine (11), and Elizabeth (5). His son is Frank (6). His real estate value is $400 and his personal estate is $300. Both he and Andrew are listed as US citizens, meaning that they have taken the oath of loyalty. Both Eliza and Catherine state that they cannot read. Andrew either learned to read and write or it was not recorded. Andrew later dies during this decade.

5 Guys – Baton Rouge, LA

How can I describe my most loved burger? When I stepped off the plane from China after having been there an entire year, the first thing I did was look for the shuttle at LAX that would take me to the nearest In & Out Burger. My love of this place was consolidated around a decade ago during my mission to California for my church. While I enjoyed Cali, In & Out in a sense capstoned the experience for me. The burger was delicious, the fries were quite good, and in the days before I recognized my inability to process lactose, I downed it with their signature shake. This review is not about In & Out though.

Others, many of whom have the knowledge to make such a comparison, stated that 5 Guys had a burger that was up there with In & Out. I decided eagerly to try this hypothesis out, despite my somewhat low expectations. I found the burger to be almost as good as In & Out. It was certainly kicked up a notch by the selection of options to put on the burger. I chose grilled onions, grilled mushrooms, and jalapenos to marry up with the traditional cheese, lettuce and mayonnaise. Perhaps the only thing that could set 5 Guys above my beloved is the cajun seasoned fries. They just fill the bag up with them and overload you with a potato avalanche of tastiness. On this factor, In & Out is left far behind.

The only real issue that I had with 5 Guys was the price. The burger was $5 & something with a $2 drink and a $2.50 bag of fries. It was definitely going for the artisan burger feel while In & Out provides its food at more reasonable prices. However, while I hesitated to pay $11, I was certainly not disappointed by the burger. In my quest for burger perfection, I may have to try Mugshots in Baton Rouge as well. Several people indicated to me that they prefer this place to 5 Guys. I will certainly have to see how they compare to In & Out.

PNQs – Finished

I just finished my PNQ – Personal Narrative Questions for my application for the US State Department. It was quite interesting trying to articulate leadership and management. I have not necessarily aschewed these opportunities but I do not go out of my way to find them either. I should hear the results back sometime in mid-January. If I pass this round, then I continue on to perhaps the most difficult part, the Oral Interview. I am optomistic but realistic at the same time. There are a great many accomplished people vying for only a few jobs. Wish me luck!

Now that is out of the way, I have several projects that I really need to finish up. I plan on rearranging my room tomorrow as well as trying to finish several long overdue papers. They will take more than a day, of course. This is, however, the first step to completing my thesis. I also plan to listen to a lecture that my friend Kathy sent to me. I have put it off long enough as well. I also need to really start looking for a new job so that I can pay off some bills. In addition, this Friday I must once again go to my therapist for my once every six weeks checkup. She will no doubt ask me about all of this so I really should get some of it done.

Caribbean Jamaican & Seafood Restaurant – Biloxi, MS

I love trying new cuisuine as anyone who knows me could well attest. So, several months ago during a visit to my brother in Biloxi, I heard about a great Caribbean restaurant from my sister-in-law, DeAnne. Since I have never tasted food from this part of the world, I thought I would give it a go. It turned out to be a great decision.

When you enter the restaurant it does not seem like much. A couple of tables and two or three booths. We were greeted by Raymond, who I think ownes the place. He was one of the friendliest waiters I have had in a long time. I decided on the chicken curry with a side of white rice and jalapeno hush puppies. Jason, my brother, ordered the jerk chicken with a side of french fries and hush puppies. DeAnne wanted jerk pork with a salad. Her second side was something called Festival, which Raymond described as a beignet without the powdered sugar. Each of these dishes were about $8.50. The portions were quite big allowing me to sample quite a bit from each of these dishes.

The jerk chicken was very good but I have to say that the pork was better. It had the flavor that you get eating beef jerky but as a sauce. It sounds unusual but I really loved it, especially in the pork as it had a little extra kick of something. The Festival was quite good, but my hands down favorite was the hush puppies. Reminded me of my childhood although my maman never included jalapenos in hers. The curry chicken that I had was fantastic. It had the chicken meat chopped up with the bones, so it really reminded me of my years in China. I spit out a lot of bones over there. :-) The anticipation and arrival of the food was so great that I forgot to take photos of the food so you will just have to accept my word on it.

If you get to Biloxi, do not forego a taste of the islands in this little joint. Excellent food and excellent atmosphere made for a great dining experience. It is located just outside the gates of Keesler AFB on Pass Rd. It is very close to a previously mentioned place, R&C Korean Restaurant. My brother observantly pointed out that Biloxi, despite its size, has some great little restaurants due to the Air Force Base. Very true and something that makes my trips there all the more enjoyable.

Veteran’s Day

Today is Veteran’s Day, when America salutes those who put on the uniform, pick up the rifle, fly the planes, sail the ships, and so much more. In decades past when conscription was ongoing, everyone was touched in some way by the military. Today, a small minority of our fellow citizens defend the whole. They do what we either cannot or will not. In ages past or the present, I today, as in all days, honor those who stand upon the wall. Paraphrasing George Orwell’s quote, “I sleep peaceably in my bed at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on my behalf.”

It is only fitting that I include the poem of Charles Michael Province. Its truth does not fade with time nor in intensity.

It is the Soldier

It is the Soldier, not the minister
Who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the Soldier, not the reporter
Who has given us freedom of the press.

It is the Soldier, not the poet
Who has given us freedom of speech.

It is the Soldier, not the campus organizer
Who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the Soldier, not the lawyer
Who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the Soldier, not the politician
Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the Soldier who salutes the flag,
Who serves beneath the flag,
And whose coffin is draped by the flag,
Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

*This picture is of my father before he left for Vietnam. Of my immediate family members, I would like to honor today my father (US Army) and my eldest brother, John (US Navy). Thank you.

The Man from Nowhere (???)

As you may know from reading this blog, I am a fan of Korean food. In addition, I love Korean movies – the romantic ones, the comedies, the dramas, and especially the gangster ones. Korean gangsters, from this film at least, deserve a special little corner of hell reserved for pedophiles, mass murders and the generally more common asshat. They are not just bad, they are real scum. I just got through watching the Man from Nowhere, a film that resembled Léon very much. Except they left the building. A man scarred from his past befriends a young girl. Her idiot, junkie mother steals a great deal of heroin from two really bad brothers. They use little kids as a delivery system for their drug empire and when they are of no more use, harvest their organs for blackmarket donors. Like I said, special place in hell.

Unforunately, when they kidnap the girl and her mother as payback, they did not comprehend the revenge they brought upon themselves. The man, played by Won Bin, turns out to be your typical dark-knight badass. The actress who plays the little girl, Kim Sae-ron, was beyond great and was only 10 or 11 at the time. She very much deserves her Best New Actress award from the Korean Film Awards. This was a great film and I recommend it. I especially liked it because it did not have the typical Korean movie ending that I had come to know and dread. I will not spell it out so as to ruin the film for you.

Game of the Year – LSU 9, Alabama 6

Among the ancient Aztecs of what is now Mexico there was a belief that if the god Huitzilopochtli was not given strength through human sacrifice, the world would end as the god no longer had the power to hold back the sun. As each human was slaughtered, Huitzilopochtli was satisfied and all the world settled in its proper order. Today, my world was once more set in its proper order by the defeat of the Alabama Crimson Tide by my beloved LSU Tigers, 9-0. For another year, I was able to look upon the anguished faces of my enemies and taste the sweet flavor of their defeat. I rejoiced! Satan…I mean, Saban, was sent back to Hell…I mean, his locker room for another year to console his team, surrounded no doubt by downcast eyes and the occasional sniffle. Let them tears roll.

The game itself was too exciting for me. My blood pressure shot up through the roof and at one point thought I might have a heart attack. The LSU defensive plays by Mo Claiborne and Eric Reid were able to stop the drives of Alabama. What the game really settled on was field goals. Come on, Saban. You have the best defense in the country and a good offense, yet you cannot find a man to kick the damn ball. Glorious! Four missed field goals (one in OT) and a blocked one do not a National Championship team make. The gameball goes to Wing and Alleman for their golden feet.

Seriously, Alabama has a great team. If they had fixed their special teams issues, I would have been the one crying tonight. Oh well, them’s the brakes.

13 Assassins (??????)

*Spoilers* I must admit that I am not an admirer of the works of Takashi Miike. His movies to me are shallow expressions of violence and sexuality seemingly existing only for its shock value. His films usually leave me cold. When I heard that he was going to do a chanbara film, I was filled with trepidation. I love chanbara – from Akira Kurosawa to Zatoichi to the works of Yoji Yamada. Because of this, I put off watching the film until last night. My final opinion was one of admiration. I feel that this work was a great expression of the duality of samurai honor in a modern perspective.

The duality exists between the two main samurai, Hanbei Kitou and Shinzaemon Shimada. Hanbei serves an evil man, Lord Naritsugu Matsudaira, who is the half-brother of the Shogun. The Lord uses Hanbei’s honor to control him all the while taunting him. In between this, he also performs such sadistic tasks as using a whole family for target practice, raping a women and then killing her husband, etc. We get the point – he needs to die, especially as he is about to join the Shogunate council leading the nation. One of the other members of the council commissions Shinzaemon to kill Naritsugu.

Shinzaemon provides an interesting contrast to Hanbei. He performs his duty in order to be obedient but he cannot hide the excitement that this job brings. There has been a long period of peace and samurai have been regulated to the mere caricatures that Naritsugu ridicules. He joins with 11 other “true” samurai for this task, picking up a 13th ruffian on the journey. Each of these men, it seems, live at the margins of Shogunate enforced peace – gamblers, playboys, hired swords, etc. All of them are looking for a way to re-enbue their lives with with real purpose and regain true samurai status. Shinzaemon’s nephew, Shinrokuro, was acted by Takayuki Yamada. I enjoyed his work in another one of the few Takashi Miike movies that I can stand, Crows Zero.

All of this reaches up to the final combat scene, which employs a great deal of violence. Interesting enough, Miike seems to eschew the blood sprays found in so many other samurai films. There is plenty of killing though, as 13 men go up against 200. The final scene leaves the evil lord crawling in the mud, finally coming to an understanding of the reality of both pain and death. Like I said, it was a great movie.