August Vacation Home, Part I

My August turned out much different than originally planned. I intended to take an intensive CELTA (Certificate in English Language Teaching to Speakers of Other Languages) class because I am thinking of leaving China next year and wanted some extra qualifications to increase my hireability. On July 22nd, I had an hour or so interview to get into the class. The interviewer said that I passed and that I would shortly find out if I was accepted to the class. The next morning I received an email from the school stating that I was accepted. Four hours later, I was notified that the class was full. I was understandably frustrated with these events, so in a fit of pique I decided to buy a ticket home for the month of August. The price was a little high at $1900, but it was on short notice.

I left Beijing on a flight to Washington, then to Houston and finally Gulfport. It was a long flight. It was the normal 12-13 hours to the US. Embarrassingly I did not look at my ticket and thought I was going to SEA-TAC, Washington state, not Washington, D.C. It is okay though because I became a little acquainted with the place during my 11 hour lay-over. Sleeping on airport benches, in a word, suck.

I stayed with Jason for a couple of days. We had several good conversations as usual. We spent quite a bit of time trying to get Ethan’s jeep fixed. I was also able to speak to Morgan about her doing temple work. After this, I went back home. It is strange but when I come home it always feels a little like I never left. One big difference was Tyler. That boy grew a lot taller in the last 6 months. He may even top me one day. I spent a couple of days sleeping, still recovering from the jet lag. It was brutal this time around. Marianne was kind enough to volunteer Tyler’s bed to me.

I was there about five or six days. I spent some time with John and Marianne watching Criminal Minds on Netflix. They really enjoy that show as much as I do. I think Dad started watching it first. They mentioned a steak joint that they said was fabulous. I also spent some time with Dad and Darlene. They are crazy about this dice game called Farkle. It is a stupid name for a game, but it was fun hanging out with them.

I went to Doug’s house down in Grey for a couple of days. He was still recovering from his surgery. He had a horrible time with infection and spent about a month and a half to two months fighting it. He looked really good though. We hung out and watched TV together. I wish that there had had been some football on then. Although I like the Saints, he is a much bigger fan. I prefer college and love only my beloved Tigers.

After I left his house, I went to Baldwin Co., Alabama once again to get some land papers there. I also received a lawsuit and an orphan’s court record from the Archivist. They were extremely helpful. When I was done there, I headed back to Jason’s in Gulfport.

From Thursday the 20th to Monday the 24th, we headed out on a road trip to North and South Carolina. Jason and I toured the Biltmore. Jason had never been and he enjoyed it a lot, even though he complained about the $60 entrance fee. It was really high. But the highlight of the trip was that I was able to see two ladies, Ms. Blue and Rhonda. Ms. Blue kept me as a baby while mom worked and our annual trips to Maine were never complete without stopping and seeing her. She looked great and oh did I miss her and Rhonda.
Ms Blue, Rhonda, Jason and me

On Saturday, we made our way to Myrtle Beach to see my favorite cousin, Jacob. He is a graphic design professor there. We made a day trip out to Charleston to see the sites on Sunday. That is a beautiful town, a lot like New Orleans without the grime and crime (as Jacob says). We went to the Battery and saw the old buildings and then headed out to Ft. Sumter. It was a great trip. I had not seen him in two years since I helped him move from Oklahoma to South Carolina. All in all, it was a great road trip and something that I needed desperately. I enjoyed seeing people and hanging out with my brother.

Jacob and Jason at the Battery A beautiful scene Wrought iron and foliage A secret garden. Jason and Jacob acting gangster at BBQ. Ft. SumterCannon at Ft. Sumter Part of the wall at Ft. Sumter  Charleston bridge

A Week in Review – Sept. 23 – Sept. 30

This past week has been an eventful one. First, I finished writing a very rough draft of the introduction to my thesis that my Advisor praised a little. We discussed where I should be headed and she gave me quite a few insights that I can use in writing my thesis body. Luckily, quite a bit of it is already there because I did a great deal of it before my mental crap out in December 2010. I feel way more confident this time around than last time. I still have to control my impulses for procrastination and such, but I have a much better handle on how this is all going down.

I started to wet shave with a safety razor. I do not have the courage to step up to a straight razor. I started out with those cheap Bics when I was a teenager that cut my face to ribbons. I decided to use the Mach 3 when it first appeared on the market. I used that for several years until I became tired of spending so much on the blades. I started using my father’s favorite – disposable Gillette’s from Winn Dixie. Not a bad choice but they cut a little as well. It got to the point where I either didn’t shave for a week because I hated shaving or shaved because I really dislike facial hair. The war got a little hairy sometimes, if you’ll forgive the pun. I decided to try something different. I bought a Merkur straight razor and a shaving brush with cake soap. All I can say is why did it take me this long to find you. It has given me the closest shave with the least irritation than anything I have ever used before. *Update* My Merkur razor unexpectedly came apart, but the merchant that I purchased it from is providing a replacement at no additional cost. Very nice.

In addition, I went to get a new phone. Actually, I went to the Sears Auto-center to put new tires on my car and change the oil. While waiting, I went to the nearby AT&T store to look at their selection of Samsung Galaxy 3IIIs. The price was a little too much and I was easily talked into buying a HTC One X. I had an HTC Inspire, but had had significant issues with it – mostly call reception and battery life. My brothers said that it made me sound muffled and low, while the new phone was crystal. So far, I am loving my new phone.

Speaking of something new, I also gained a new great-nephew. Elijah Joseph Sibley was born the 25th of September 2012, weighing 8 lbs and measuring 22 inches. While this is not my first time as a great-uncle, he is pretty damn cute, if I may say so. It stinks that I am so far away and will not be able to meet him until December. Here are one or two pictures.

             

I also had a Korean chapter test in which I intially felt alright about but was only able to secure a 86% score. There was not a deep fundamental flaw, mostly nicks taken off here and there. This just means that I will have to study harder. Doh!

Hmm, I also met with some old friends for lunch at the Hunan Gardens Restaurant for hotpot. I had not had hotpot since I came home from China in 2010. It was awesome. I made tentative plans for a later reunion with these same friends and others at the same place. Thank you Lisa for taking me there and Quincy for joining us. It was great meeting with you ladies after such a long time. Quincy also invited us to her single’s ward meeting and an afterward break the fast at her house in Park City. The meeting was pretty good and it felt great since I had not been to church since arriving. I know, I know – I’m a slacker. The break the fast meeting was excellent as well. I would like to thank Quincy’s parents for opening their home to me. Next week, I am going down to Cedar Hills (north of Provo) to go to church with the Moak boys and also watch football. Geaux Tigers!

Thanksgiving Weekend

This holiday weekend has been one of highs and lows for me. It started out pretty well when I had Thanksgiving at my Aunt Madge’s house with my cousins Mike and Renee. Renee’s kids were there as well as Aubrey, her granddaughter. I had a great time talking with all of them and eating the food. We had turkey, stuffing, green bean casserole, and several other delicious dishes. After that, I went over to my Dad’s and talked to with him and Darlene. I then went to John and Marianne’s house. Jason and DeAnne had arrived from Biloxi, so I got to hang out a little with everyone at John’s. It was a good day although I did get a little irritated. My only brother that I didn’t get to talk to was Doug, who was coming back home from his trip to Gatlinburg. I will see him and everyone else on Dec. 10th though.

Friday was the real high, however, in that I was able to see Arkansas get the stuffing beat out of them by an indomitable LSU team. On to the SEC championship against Georgia and hopefully the NCAA Championship in New Orleans. Arkansas was able to put up 14 points against us initially, which is the biggest deficient we had the entire year. Actually, coming from behind was quite novel as it has been really rare this year. Mathieu and the defense played like professionals. The offense was great as well, especially our depth in running-backs. By the end of the game, dive plays were slicing them like soft cheese. Jefferson played almost the entire game with Lee getting in only a few snaps. I feel quite miffed about this as we are definitely not running a 2 quarterback system. I think it is a slap in the face to Lee, who has proved his ability and loyalty. This was the only stain on an otherwise awesome game. To be honest, it made me wish for some nice pork rather than turkey for dinner. Besides this, I have a message to the rest of the football nation – be afraid, very afraid. Almost every starter on our team is either a Freshman, Sophomore, or Junior. Only a few Seniors and they have great backups behind them. It is downright scary how good LSU is with such a young team.

After that, it seemed to go a little bit downhill. I did not get much sleep as I stayed up to read a book. I was really tired for work Saturday. I know, I know. I accept full responsibility for my actions. I think I got sick from doing this as I slept from 7:00 p.m. Saturday to 9:30 on Sunday. I was feeling too blah for church. The only good thing that came from Sunday was seeing one of the most spectacular episodes of The Walking Dead. This show was getting a little too weak sauce for me and then bam!, it went to another level. Good writing. Yesterday, was a little more of the same. Two nice things happened despite my funky mood – my friends Nathan and Jill had a little girl, Presley Britt, and New Orleans rubbed the Giants’ face in their own mediocrity. If you don’t know it, I will tell you – I despise Eli Manning. It goes back to the 2004 Draft when he refused to play for the San Diego Chargers. I like Peyton, but cheer like crazy when Eli loses. Speaking of the NFL, what is up with Tim Tebow? I am not a fan, but you have to laugh at the fools who said he would not amount to much. I admit to a little bad prognosticating and being a fool, but damn he is winning. It is not pretty, but he is winning.

Perhaps the true low point is that I have decided to sell one of my babies, my SKS. It has brought me great joy in the past but now sits in my closet not doing much. I need the green, so it goes. When my cash flow increases, I may get another or even something else. So, good bye Yugoslavian Type M59/66 SKS. I have only the pictures to remind me of you.

Some Friends Depart

A couple of months ago, I made the acquaintance of two girls from China that had come over to work and travel here in the U.S. They were in a pretty bad spot because they were plunked down in Watson, LA, the community where I work. There is not much to do there and life is pretty much impossible without having your own vehicle. We have no public transportation and they were unable to go anywhere until they procured some bicycles at Walmart. It is about a 3 and 1/2 mile walk.

In addition, their work condition was not very good. Their boss at Church’s Chicken was quite harsh to them and the Turkish guys who lived with them. I am boycotting that particular establishment for life over this issue. They were not provided with enough work hours so they went to get a second job at McDonald’s. They worked around 70 hours a week each. Yesterday, their boss at Church’s had the temerity to state that they were not hard workers and she did not like them. Well, to hell with that. They are great people and work harder than that person ever will in her life.

I initially helped them because of the warmth and welcome that I had received in their homeland. Upon getting to know them, I came to believe they are outstanding people with good hearts. I wish that I had been more capable of helping them get established and see some of the sights that I am proud of in my home state. Alas, a couple of days ago, I bid one of them goodbye as she was leaving for New York City. Today, the other one left for Washington, D.C. and other parts. I wish them both well and happy journeys. Be safe. And if my countrymen run into Serena Chen from Hangzhou and Anna Jiang from Wenzhou, be kind to them and watch over them. Thank you.